She Ain’t Fat Bruh

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The only good thing about getting home from vacation is being able to catch up on all the dope tunes I missed out on when I was gone. At the top of my mind, I instantly thought Drake’s new album Views and  Beyonce’s Lemonade, until I came across a new track by Trinidad James called “Just A Lil’ Thick” (She Juicy) ft. Mystikal, Lil Dicky.

Besides having a great beat, which is one of my top priorities as a person who A) likes to dance and B) often throws parties. This track embraces the idea of loving women’s bodies who in modern day society would be considered “fat, obese, or overweight”. Our society often resorts to body shaming when someone’s body does not fit the ideal body type, for women the ideal body type is someone who is considered thin, or skinny.

For most women, laying outside of these standards can result in negative feedback from society, work place opportunities, lovers, friends and family. In the music video, James rejects societal stereotypes about what men should want or find attractive in a female, while also changing the negative idea of the word “fat” and saying “She ain’t fat bruh, just a lil thick”. This transforms the negative stereotype of “fat” into something that isn’t so offensive to those who have a larger body type.

He tackles fat shaming attitudes by embracing the positive side to thicker women, with lyrics like “I’m talkin the 175 and up club, the we cook good, we eat good, we look good”. This acknowledges that just because a woman likes to eat, it does not make her “fat” but an attractive woman who is comfortable enough in her own skin to actually EAT!

This song actually makes me happy when I listen to it; I think as women, our bodies and our looks can sometimes be a daily struggle, especially if we aren’t being supported by others around us. Some people go to extremes just to be so thin because society tells them this how you should be and look.

To me I’ve never been that skinny girl, I LOVE FOOD and always will, but I know how in our heads we can get as females, sometimes it can literally ruin my week just because the pressures of looking good are so strong, especially in summer time.

So to every woman out there who is struggling with body issues, weight issues, beauty issues, just know that you are NOT alone, you’re smart, you’re beautiful and you will find someone who will love you for you. Stop trying to fit in when you’re supposed to stand out!

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2 comments

  1. billycoztigan · May 31, 2016

    Nicely dissected, banging tune…Dicky kills it!

    Like

    • themondaycrunch · June 2, 2016

      Right! Love his music, thanks so much for the comment, also make sure to check out our new series: Confessions of a Chubby Friend!

      Like

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